What to Wear to Thanksgiving Dinner: Cozy, Chic Outfit Ideas

Thanksgiving dressing has its own rules. You want to look lovely for the family photos and feel festive at a beautifully set table. You also need to be completely comfortable through a long afternoon of cooking, catching up and a second slice of pie. The answer is not your oldest sweatpants or a party dress. It is the in-between: soft fabrics, warm autumn tones and pieces with a little give. Here are our favorite ways to get it right this year.

The three rules of Thanksgiving style

1. Comfort first, but polished

Look for stretch, soft knits and easy waistlines: wrap styles, elastic or high-rise waists, and relaxed silhouettes that skim rather than cling. If you can sit for a three-course meal without thinking about your outfit, you have chosen well.

2. Dress in the colors of the season

Camel, chocolate brown, rust, cranberry, olive and cream all look warm in candlelight and beautiful in photos. Animal print counts as a neutral this year, and leopard is everywhere.

3. Plan for a warm kitchen and a cold porch

Layers are your friend. A cardigan or wrap you can slip off by the oven and back on for the walk outside will carry you through the whole day.

Look one: the cozy knit wrap

For a relaxed family gathering, start with a soft knit layer. The Belted Chunky Knit Wrap Cardigan ($49) has balloon sleeves and a tie belt you can cinch or leave open, in twelve shades from cream and camel to forest green. Wear it over a simple turtleneck and dark jeans, or over a slip skirt for something a little dressier. It is the outfit you will want to stay in all weekend.

Look two: the statement maxi

If you are hosting, or the dinner is more formal, a long dress feels special while staying comfortable. The Leopard Print Long Sleeve Slit Maxi Dress ($65) has long sleeves, a crew neck and a front slit for easy movement. Add pointed-toe suede ankle boots ($60) and gold hoops, and you are ready for both the table and the photos.

Look three: velvet for the evening

Thanksgiving dinner often runs late into the evening, and velvet is the most luxurious way to dress for it. The High-Waist Velvet Wide-Leg Trousers ($43) look elegant and feel like pajamas, with a high waist that is kind after a big meal. Pair them with a fine knit or a silk blouse in cream or cranberry.

For Friendsgiving and the night out

Celebrating with friends after the family meal? The Fuzzy Knit Off-Shoulder Sweater Mini Dress ($65) is cozy and flirty at once, with a fold-over neckline that sits just off the shoulders. Wear it with knee boots and tights to keep warm.

If you are the host

Hosting means hours in the kitchen before anyone rings the doorbell, so plan two looks. Cook in something you don't mind splashing, then change twenty minutes before guests arrive. A wrap cardigan or wide-leg trousers make the switch fast. Keep a pretty apron nearby for last-minute gravy, and choose sleeves that push up easily. Set your jewelry and shoes out the night before, so your finishing touches take seconds. When guests arrive, you will look relaxed and pulled together, and no one needs to know how the morning went.

Little details that make a difference

• Jewelry: warm gold looks wonderful with autumn colors. One statement piece is enough.
• Shoes: block heels, ankle boots or elegant flats. You will be on your feet in the kitchen.
• Avoid: tight waistbands, delicate white fabrics near the gravy, and anything that needs constant adjusting.

Find more cozy layers in our Sweaters & Tees collection. Many of these styles are 25% off in our Holiday Sale through November 30, with the discount taken automatically at checkout.

Frequently asked questions

What should I wear to Thanksgiving dinner?

Choose something comfortable but polished: a soft knit with jeans or velvet trousers, or a long-sleeve maxi dress with ankle boots. Warm autumn colors and stretchy, forgiving fabrics are ideal.

Is it okay to wear jeans to Thanksgiving?

Yes, for most family gatherings. Dress them up with a beautiful knit or cardigan, ankle boots and gold jewelry.

What colors are best for Thanksgiving outfits?

Camel, brown, rust, cranberry, olive, cream and leopard print all feel seasonal and look warm in photos.